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Optimal Finance Daily · Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Gifting as a 'Virtuous' Financial Trap, Author Argues

Tim Sullivan explains that generosity, unlike vices like greed, can be a difficult financial pitfall to recognize and address. He notes that it's easier to feel guilty about buying new shoes than to question excessive spending that appears virtuous, such as spoiling a child or donating to charity.

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It's much harder to point your finger at a problem that seems virtuous.
Tim Sullivan
My friend Tracy spends almost all of her disposable income spoiling her kid, and yet complains about the holes in her own shoes.
Tim Sullivan
They seem so nice, even if they are ruining her financial situation.
Tim Sullivan
Heard on Optimal Finance Daily — “3693: How I Stopped Excessive Gifting by Tim Sullivan with Get Rich Slowly on Intentional Spending, published Tuesday, September 8, 2026. Heardvine summarizes and quotes with attribution and timestamps, and links to the original everywhere.
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Gifting as a 'Virtuous' Financial Trap, Author Argues — Heardvine